Nobody asked me

but I'm going to say what I think anyway.

I find lots of random searches in my cPanel that have brought apparently unhappy housewives to my blog.
The things they type in are sometimes sad, sometimes attrocious.
Last month there was "the+clutter+is+killing+our+marriage" and "husband+does+nothing."
The most recent was a pretty basic complaint, and as usual not something I've experienced in my marriage (which makes me expert in my opinion right?).
"what+to+do+when+your+husband+repeatedly+comes+home+late"

And I'm reading this and immediately I am so incredibly sad for her, wondering where this woman is in her life that she's searching Google for an answer to her husband's tardiness. In what relationship do you turn to a search engine for advice?
Where are her friends? Her family? Does she have no one to talk to?
More importantly, where exactly is her husband?
Did she at least try to speak with him about what's bothering her or is it one of those relationships where conversation is off limits or just pointless?
I'm plagued sometimes by a sense of failure at not having had any answers for these women - because what they might find in my blog about marriage or relationship can only make them feel worse for the comparison.
I'm in love, my husband is in love - we talk, we do everything together, we're friends.
I'm lucky.

I try to put myself in their shoes and I just can't imagine.
Thank God.

But here's the deal - if your husband is messy, if he's late all the time, if he's glued to the game every weekend, whatever it is - if he's not treating you like an absolute princess then it's time to talk.

And if you're the only one doing any talking, and you're turning to Google for answers...